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Leader - A genius with a thousand helpers.

It's been more than 2 years I've been trying to understand what's leader or what's leadership. Show leadership abilities, become a leader, think like a leader, work like a leader, are all the terms I've listened atleast once in the near past. We are often given examples of politicians, ceo's, sportspersons and writers. But it's still unclear as the definitions is not itself clearly defined in examples.  I came across a poster a "Leadership is when people obey you when you're not obliged." Another statement I often come across are "Leaders are born not made" There is also another statement, which says "Leadership is the consistency of practice which are denoted as examples. It's still unclear as to what's leader or leadership is. Let's ask Google, it defines "a group or I individual who can lead or influence a group." It's a deeper meaning which implies to what Google has said. Leading a team and influenc

Is love enough?

Certainly not! Love is not at all enough when you want to settle down in a marriage. Although people say love is the one that survives the marriage, but it isn't. Out of 100 close to 22 marriages break in india incase of arranged marriages and only 13 marriages fail in India yet love marriages have a high chance of rebound.  Why love is so much important because the person, the uniqueness of that person, the efforts they put in to pursue such a relationship and even the things related to the person also get accepeted for who they are hence we tend to value to things which we've worked hard for and in arranged marriages cases things are taken for granted. We live in a society where a girl's beauty is measured in terms of boy's earning ability. The concept of justification is itself is baseless as beauty fades away but the earnings potential increases. So why to pursue such investments? The base would be much storngers when both persons thought process match, values match

Machine Learning, AI and myself.

I am an ardent fan of engineering, although I haven't studied engineering in graduation I've a strong inclination towards technologies and learning them. I know how to code, write websites, do animations, understand the coding structure and even understand complex codes ever written by any engineer. Although to work in this field a strong mindset, logical reasoning, and thought clarity with a vision is required. I started learning these technologies way back in my graduation where I was taught HTML website development, which I found to be way easier than economics and accountancy combined. I also learnt RDBMS relational database management systems, and moving forward I also learnt C++ and Java core basics but not in depth. Although these were technologies which were working on top demand during those days, I didn't want to get into this field coz I'll always be driven by people of bad ideas and the unfair opportunity cost of losing jobs and becoming unemployed eventuall

How to end a relationship with self-awareness, integrity, and grace !

With great strength and despite difficulty, the choice was to end the relationship. Maybe you made this decision with some ease, as trusting your gut comes naturally to you.  Perhaps you stood at a relational crossroads for a while, weighing your options and seeking counsel from trusted friends and family. Regardless, here you are, choosing this path towards your next unwritten chapter. The Right Choice and the Hard Choice Can Be the Same Choice  As we mature through the journey from childhood  to  adolescence to adulthood, we refine our emotion-regulation strategies.  Yet ending a relationship at any age or stage in life is hard and understandably shakes the earth beneath even the hardiest among us.  Even if breaking up feels like the right move, or the only move, the experience of losing someone who was once so significant inevitably stirs complex negative emotions. Shame , frustration, sadness, doubt, and anger , often complicated by nostalgia of your partner, are all feelings that

Close.... but Apart - How to deal with a break up!

On an average everyday there happens 25000 break ups across the world based on blog by Kavips. Indeed Love is a greatest feeling one can ever pursue in life but a very few of them have the privilege of owning it till the end. Although loving anyone is not in our hands and would never will be.  Love is something which happens naturally, like a spark and grows ultimately without doing much efforts. And when things move forward it grows stronger and gives an compounding effect to both as well as the ecosystem.  Being loved by someone boosts the confidence and gives them a sense of superior belief and responsibility too. Although many people misunderstand what love is, some think it's the support they get from others, some say it's an situation where you can't say no to anyone, some say respecting and obeying and what not. it include all of them and with it also has a strong sense of bonding and understanding and commitment to bring the best out of each other.  It all looks bes

Are you nervous? Just do it !

Do you know what is the most important skill that will help you in your career/life? The answer is: Having good confidence and not being nervous. If you can control your nervousness, you can achieve a lot in life. All of us feel nervous when we have to communicate. Usually, we talk without a problem when we talk with friends. Because with friends, we have nothing to hide. We are just being ourselves. In general, most of us are not just being ourselves with the world around us. We put up a fake mask to face society. We try to show ourselves as someone we are not. That's why we feel nervous. Many people cannot speak on the stage fluently and easily. Many people cannot do webinars confidently. Many people cannot do sales without nervousness. Many people cannot talk to authority without nervousness. (Many guys cannot even propose to their girlfriend confidently, just do it. She'll value it, believe me, one moment with her can change your whole life.) The secret to many good things

How to write better !

Any word which is  written word is powerful. Add a few more adjectives, nouns and proper punctuation marks it adds value to the reader's understanding and add more sense to it, it will be understandable when we have a particular user in mind for whom it is being written and adding that personal experience or person touch, that makes all the difference..   Isn't it? Let me give you an example, if I ask you to read a business newspaper it will never be understand it unless you are related to that field and else the information such simple that it goes through the user's mind. In the age of social media, we might be distracted and sometimes we forget how powerful words are. There are memes, short videos, animations, and so many types of media. But words are still powerful. It connects. On a deep level. My blog is read by many readers every month. Twitter, though short, is full of written words. All my blogs are just words.  I don't add fancy HTML designs and animations to