Come, I'll tell you Secret to a better life!
Having a better life is always an aim for any individual since the time he/she had started taking control of lives.
Humans are typical beings, who are often confused between choices and left with nothing in hand, some even stick to it so badly that lately it is realized that world has moved much forward than their pace.
In fact, already confused people, in turn, confuse others and impact their surroundings too. We copy each other up to an extent living each other's identity rather living oneself.
A better life has a different opinion for every other human being in this world. And it's weighted average continue to differ from person to person.
But, when you grow and think deeply to separate facts from illusions the story is completely different here. It's not the money, or power or eating full, or even to fulfill your dreams. It's the life that starts after that, beyond the scope of money, power, greed, dreams and many other things too.
When we question our inner self and try to understand its proximity to our mind it looks in these points.
- Stop trying to please everyone
You're not a showpiece which was just created to please everyone. You are better than this, and deserve better than this. Stop pleasing and start working on to please yourself. You might be wrong, completely wrong in your sense but those who keep the courage to be their self are the ones who can accept anything wholeheartedly.
- Fearing change in lifestyle
Economies advance because the market forces them to. Markets are again advanced to cater to ever needs of people. A change in lifestyle cannot be considered as a cultural deficiency but help you be relevant to the present. Today, cultures are termed as values, coupled with a relevant lifestyle enhances your life become more relevant.
- Living in the past
One of the most disappointing thing which I see today in society is people living in the past of whatever tragedy that has happened in the past. The reason why people get stuck in the past is that either it was premature, didn't happen as expected it to be or trusted the situation more than anything or the end result which they never expected it to happen. What one has to understand is that "Best is yet to come!"
- Overthinking
We often subsidize our value and performance by overthinking. Analyzing the situation in more ways than it actually required just pays off negatively. Just do what your effort and let the best happen, that's it.
- Being afraid to stick out
Sticking into one's area of interest is the best way to lead life. Remember Robert Frost's "Road Not taken" which says whatever the road you take you should be confident of your decision in any situation. Having a passion for what you do actually streamlines your life completely. Because you don't have to bother for returns as you just invest out fo sheer pleasure, don't get offended because expect very little out of it and it is close to your heart, never get tired of what you do as you enjoy doing it 24x7. When you have such a healthy habit getting bit by unpleasant situations doesn't get you disappointed because you have got a much bigger purpose or vision to accomplish yourself.
- Sacrificing your happiness for others
We often misunderstand the present situation to sacrifices. You got to achieve better and best in your life. Sacrificing yourself for others happiness just ruins the situation very badly.
Example, when buy products in the market are the best of the quality and each substitute is much better than other often leaves you confusing which one to buy. Likewise, if each of the substitute company if sacrifices their product quality for its competitor then there would be no value existed for that company and one day it will get vanished losing its value. But will the benefited company ever come to the sacrificed company's rescue? Never ! because it got what it wanted the entire market to rule for. That's what happens when you sacrifice yourself to others rather be a tough competition or leave the situation for itself.
- Thinking you're not good enough
It's natural that good and bad coexist. If one is good doesn't mean that another one has to be bad or wrong but instead can be better. The idea is not being good or bad, but how you're dealing the situation without harming anyone is the key takeaway
- Thinking you have no purpose
Incorporation of these activities and finding a purpose to work on is the secret to a better life. Although there's no definition to it, but you can define it the way you want!.
Humans are typical beings, who are often confused between choices and left with nothing in hand, some even stick to it so badly that lately it is realized that world has moved much forward than their pace.
In fact, already confused people, in turn, confuse others and impact their surroundings too. We copy each other up to an extent living each other's identity rather living oneself.
A better life has a different opinion for every other human being in this world. And it's weighted average continue to differ from person to person.
But, when you grow and think deeply to separate facts from illusions the story is completely different here. It's not the money, or power or eating full, or even to fulfill your dreams. It's the life that starts after that, beyond the scope of money, power, greed, dreams and many other things too.
When we question our inner self and try to understand its proximity to our mind it looks in these points.
- Stop trying to please everyone
You're not a showpiece which was just created to please everyone. You are better than this, and deserve better than this. Stop pleasing and start working on to please yourself. You might be wrong, completely wrong in your sense but those who keep the courage to be their self are the ones who can accept anything wholeheartedly.
- Fearing change in lifestyle
Economies advance because the market forces them to. Markets are again advanced to cater to ever needs of people. A change in lifestyle cannot be considered as a cultural deficiency but help you be relevant to the present. Today, cultures are termed as values, coupled with a relevant lifestyle enhances your life become more relevant.
- Living in the past
One of the most disappointing thing which I see today in society is people living in the past of whatever tragedy that has happened in the past. The reason why people get stuck in the past is that either it was premature, didn't happen as expected it to be or trusted the situation more than anything or the end result which they never expected it to happen. What one has to understand is that "Best is yet to come!"
- Overthinking
We often subsidize our value and performance by overthinking. Analyzing the situation in more ways than it actually required just pays off negatively. Just do what your effort and let the best happen, that's it.
- Being afraid to stick out
Sticking into one's area of interest is the best way to lead life. Remember Robert Frost's "Road Not taken" which says whatever the road you take you should be confident of your decision in any situation. Having a passion for what you do actually streamlines your life completely. Because you don't have to bother for returns as you just invest out fo sheer pleasure, don't get offended because expect very little out of it and it is close to your heart, never get tired of what you do as you enjoy doing it 24x7. When you have such a healthy habit getting bit by unpleasant situations doesn't get you disappointed because you have got a much bigger purpose or vision to accomplish yourself.
- Sacrificing your happiness for others
We often misunderstand the present situation to sacrifices. You got to achieve better and best in your life. Sacrificing yourself for others happiness just ruins the situation very badly.
Example, when buy products in the market are the best of the quality and each substitute is much better than other often leaves you confusing which one to buy. Likewise, if each of the substitute company if sacrifices their product quality for its competitor then there would be no value existed for that company and one day it will get vanished losing its value. But will the benefited company ever come to the sacrificed company's rescue? Never ! because it got what it wanted the entire market to rule for. That's what happens when you sacrifice yourself to others rather be a tough competition or leave the situation for itself.
- Thinking you're not good enough
It's natural that good and bad coexist. If one is good doesn't mean that another one has to be bad or wrong but instead can be better. The idea is not being good or bad, but how you're dealing the situation without harming anyone is the key takeaway
- Thinking you have no purpose
Global Pharma Major Dr Reddy's laboratories founder Mr Anji Reddy said "everyone has a purpose in life and a unique talent to give to others. And when we blend this unique talent with service to others, we experience the ecstasy and exultation of own spirit, which is the ultimate goal of all goals." You don't know what you're making others learn and who you're inspiring secretly.
Incorporation of these activities and finding a purpose to work on is the secret to a better life. Although there's no definition to it, but you can define it the way you want!.
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